RSMCGUITAR
I have had a lot of trouble with the ProChannel and sidechaining.
+1 I have as well.
To the OP: In situations like yours I typically use a send to a bus / to hear only the delay and not the vocal.
I use to do similar things on analog gear back in the day by patching the FX at the stereo outs (using a send) to a bus.
I know that's little help, my apology's. But maybe I can try to reproduce this on my set up in a little bit, tell you what I got.