ORIGINAL: Ogis
Because drummers are the worst musicians in a band.
Okay, thats messed up. I am a drummer of 10 years (and I'm only 25)... I took lessons for 6 years, and like to think I'm not too bad.
Let me explain something to you. Drummers have a NATURAL feel for rhythm. When you put a metrodome (I know I spelled that wrong) to us, you throw us off. Simple as that. We have our own feel, within our head. As soon as we start to feel someting outside our own natural rhythm, we get thrown off. Its not a simple 4 count on a hi hat, its in us. If you have a drummer that cant keep time, you dont have a drummer. Simple as that. A true drummer sould be able to do, off beats, funk, fills, etc, with out any help. What throws us off the most (within a band), is a screw up on part of the bass. drums and bass are the backbone of rhythm in a song. Do not, I repeat do not say we have no talent. How about this, try doing paradoodles, whilch is tapping R = right, L = Left.. RLRRLRLL, LRLLRLRR.. And see how fast you can do it to time
All good musicians have a natural feel and an internal clock.
A metronome is " throwing you off" ???
Well, an other translation to that is, you can't, or don't like to, follow strict time.
It's totally up to you to deciede if you want to aquire that skill or not.
The "should be" is defined by your choices.
I know drummers that enjoy working with a click and they happen to be the best, funkiest drummers I've ever worked with.
However, the ones I'm talking about are 15 to 20 yrs. older than you.
Then again, when I was in hight school the drummer for my band then was also a drummer in the school orchestra and had come up from grade school orchestra and had took lessons from a somewhat famous
player at that time. ( mid '60s ) ..........
......he always practiced at home with a metronome. The teacher I'm talking about used a metronome in the lessons off and on and was very very strict about learning what strict time was all about.
It's something you work "with" ... and when you get strong and accurate enough, you can dance around it like a wild man dancing around a bon fire and never loose site of the core time ... the real clock.
Once you "get it" you get it and keep it, in my opinion.
That highscool drummer is still a friend of mine and was world class then as still is.
He doesn't play regularly, but he can still sit down at a kit and play any style with great accuracy and amazing variety of feeling.
It's about experience, and that's not necessarily meaning age.