you might find it actually helps NOT having such distractions as youtube etc
you can learn how they make sounds , well boom , have more punch etc... you can't really do it from a mix as it's not on it's own. Once you learn stuff like that , theory wise you won't need to listen to it on others work.
again EQ wise , your not comparing like for like, even if you have say the same synth , the sound can be coloured by numerous subtle effects , which again really alters the overall mix.
learn about side chain ducking , and things like that , if you haven't already .. is one of the things that gives you more room Hz wise, as sub bass / kick will clash.