I myself find a lot of today's mixes are overcrowded and not what there cracked up to be.Especially Top 40 music of today.Even Tv and films the music Is too loud and you cannot hear the actors speak. FACT!!!
Also on Tv the volumes are all over the place .You would think there would be a standard.
I am not a mixer of any sort ,but I can tell whether something Is muffled or too toppy /bassy etc.
Now going back to the 70s, Robin Trowers Bridge of Sighs album is streets ahead and even on the first Emerson,Lake and Palmer album which was Greg Lakes Spontanious Combustion the mixing was Impeccable.
I would say mix yourself and try It out on car stereo's ,Hi-Fi or In a local club ,till you get a good template.
I am just getting my head around Spectrum analyzers and eq.
I suppose you could also get a song In the style you love and put It on a spectrum analyizer and try to match It with trial and error. That Is what I having a go at at this moment. It is flaming hard though!!!!
I reckon keep bashing away and It all will somehow get lodged brain cells!!
It is all In the frequenciesAlso I reckon you can over hear and lose where your going.
Most of the human race would not tell the difference between a mp3 and Wave nowadays,Especially Motorhead!!! There all ruddy deaf!!!
All the best
John