That sounds like a strange problem. I don't think I've ever experienced something like that while using a plugin unless the Sonar audio engine was dropping out completely. That usually only happens if I have my audio buffers set too low and it can't handle the load. What kind of audio interface are you using and what are your driver settings?
The MIDI buffers issue would have been my other thought, but seems you have covered that one already.
I tried to reproduce it using SI Drums and Session Drummer. All stable here on the latest release of Sonar 2017.04.