Interesting thread, guys.
just last night I had the same issue 3 times that Sonar "lost connection to its audio engine", meaning the song kept playing but Sonar entered the non-responsives state. playback was fine but could no longer be stopped neither from keyboard nor control surface. i know i had been pushing the system hard, running low ASIO buffers and doing "nasty" things like adding plugs while playback ... still, been guilty of that before, but have not seen that behaviour
The other odd thing is that Sonar occasionally does not like the combination of certain plug-ins e.g. FF MB and WAVES AR Plates (on different buses). Independent of ASIO buffer size it will crackle. Often closing the project and reopening fixes it (no changes to buffers or plug settings) ... weird