I usually buy gear that I'm unsure of from retailers with great return policies. I've made great use out of Amazon's return policies and I've heard good things about Sweetwater's but haven't needed it for anything I've ordered from them. Worst case scenario assuming you treat the gear right is you end up paying for shipping costs. Much better than being stuck with a $500 brick.
My favorite is Amazon's Christmas return window. You buy something starting November 1 and you can return it up to any point before January 31. I find that life often gets in the way of the usual 30 day return policies so this works out great.
I've also negotiated custom return policies with manufacturers in the past. I wanted to try out a pricey delay pedal from a high-end guitar effect manufacturer but at the time you could pretty much only order direct from them and they had no return policy other than for defects. I emailed them asking if they could make an exception and they agreed to a two-week, no-questions-asked trial period (which was unnecessary because the pedal turned out awesome).