AdamGrossmanLG
i feel there should be NO directive on what kind of mood the forum should have.
i want to hear PURE honesty. why not? i mean who is so sensitive that you can't hear someone's gripes?
I hate filters.
Then you shouldn't even be here, because you're forced to deal with the biggest filter of all: a text-only medium. It filters out all nuance, body language, and expressiveness.
Also, there is a difference between honesty and negativity. It's entirely possible to be honest and positive; it just takes a little more effort (or in some cases, self-control).
A forum is a place "a place, meeting, or medium where ideas and views on a particular issue can be exchanged." People will have a more enjoyable experience if discussions can occur without an overlay of negativity. I can't think of any situation where a lack of civility is preferable to civility.