PreferencePlease don't tell me how I'm supposed to process my emotions JUST FOR YOU regarding my use of the SONAR Forum .
Absolute FactMy personal upbringing was nothing remotely like any of the TV shows of my youth .
Shows like Leave it to Beaver , Father Knows Best or any other Pollyanna drivel along the lines of
"Gee Wally Lets paint the world to be what we want it to be as opposed to what it really is" is not a tool in my tool box .
Fact I have absolutely no problem with a person choosing that for themselves as their mode of coping with the world and their style of communicating . I'm willing to let you be you as you are . In return you have to be willing to let me be me as I am .
FactI do not need your approval nor your validation .
Preference based on setting healthy boundarys Please don't try to slam that special brand of BS you've been selling for years down my throat because I'm not buying it ...
Factwhen I saw the opening post before any one had posted in it many hours ago , I had enough common sense to just let it go.
Setting a boundary
After coming back and reading this again it's like Ok I heard you now you can hear me .
Absolute Fact I'm here because I use and LOVE SONAR ... Why else would I be here ?
A Long Held Desire Sure , I would like this place to be more positive & peaceful myself...
Observation based on years of dealing with people that like to play head games
I do find it disconcerting that a person can have the audacity to publicly post about a collective group of individuals on a forum and their behavior, call them out on all their shortcomings as a group and not even exhibit one iota of the quality's in their own personal communication style that they are looking to get others to conform to
You can decide , I have already made my decision on these last two.
If anyone here on the forum wants me to modify my behavior just for them so they can have me sit on the grass at their feet and listen to them tell me stories about how it supposed to be in SONARLAND while they tell me all about the grasshopper I'm supposed to be hearing in the grass ...
They Sure Better have some real super bad SONAR Kung Foo ....
Kenny