When recording a real band there is no real reason to lock to the grid. That's what makes it real. Sure way out is bad, but if it's close and all the other instruments are following then why worry.
So you have to question yourself why you are wanting to lock to the grid in the first place.
Only time it matters for me is if I'm planning to overdub midi data which will be quantizied.
For me the kick needs to lock to the bass if nothing else. So I put those 2 tracks side by side and make sure they match.
If it needs to lock to the grid then now with drum replacer I only do the kick. Sampled kicks are generally better anyways.
But agreed, if you have a great recording of the rest of the kit then it get a little tricky.
A multi track drum recording will have leakage so just fixing one track might mean fixing them all together.
So I'll fix the kick and leave the rest alone. If the tracks where that bad they should have been re recorded.