You may have a VST 2 and a VST 3 version, in both 64-bit and 32-bit, which would account for 4 versions of that dll.
A while back, some Arturia VST 3 plugins would crash Sonar, and that was remedied by using the VST 2 version of those plugins.
Perhaps you can try using the VST 2 version of your failing plugin to see if that is more stable. The audio quality of both the VST 2 and VST 3 versions of it will sound the same - the differences between the two specifications are not audio related, so that might well be a good workaround for you, for the moment - until such time as the VST 3 version starts to work with Sonar.
Bob Bone