I find patching more intuitive if I'm looking at the Console view, which is your mixer in Sonar.
Pre or Post fader button next to your send?
...sometimes I place a send in pre-fader, and that also ends up being pre-mute/solo as well.
So the sound still makes it to the bus the send was patched to...
Try post fader setting if in Pre fader.
Also - as someone mentioned, your patching...
Are all tracks going to the Master bus, and only one output from your IO is being utilized?
(shown at the bottom of each track in Console View.)
Sometimes I inadvertently change the output of a track to an actual IO output instead of the
master bus or other bus feeding the master bus.
That may cause both the master bus and track to play simultaneously, depending on how
your IO is configured.