Those settings your looking at are for syncing an external device, like another sequencer to Sonar, they have nothing to do with your recorded audio clock rate. That is set in the ASIO control panel for your interface and will show in the Tempo widget.
When it speeds up does the music also play at a higher pitch? This is important.
If it doesn't then that's not the Sample rate causing issue.
When your sample rate changes it's just like speeding up or slowing down a record or a tape.
If this is not the case then only the Tempo set by Sonar could possibly change, And that only changes the rate that midi is played back, not the audio.