Possible Solution Found:
Apply this patch:
www.microsoft.com/en-us/download/confirmation.aspx?id=30679
re-boot if necessary
Then
Fire Up X3 -
GoTo Preferences -> VST Settings
Check Rescan Failed Plugins and Rescan Existing Plugins
Click [Reset] - and let the VST scanner do its thing
UnCheck the Rescan Failed/Existing checkboxes and click OK
Now check the SoftSynths and see if old SD3 isn't available now....
Sorry not more detailed - am tired from fighting this all night - but I finally got it back
Hope this helps someone....CE
PS - I lost SD3 after the Windows 10 upgrade - this is what got it back...