I work in the electrical business...and music is a hobby to me at this point in my life.
So in the electrical business.....I must have tools to do my job properly. I have a choice.... I can go to Walmart and K-Mart and buy some screwdrivers in a blister pack for $4.99 for 6 different screwdrivers, or I can go the the electrical supply store and buy one Klein screwdriver for $9.99.... it's my choice... Same deal with the other tools I use. A set of pliers from Walmart for $1.99 or Klein sidecutters for $25.99
I choose to buy the much more expensive tools..... not because I like to spend money, but because they are much better quality tools and will do the job I need them to do every time I use them and....they are comfortable to use. So when I need a new tool, I buy the best I can get.
Why the discussion about tools....?
Back to what I told you some time back..... if music is your business.... if you are making money from it.... doing whatever it is you do.... why are you messing around with the "k-mart screwdrivers" ? (MME and factory sound cards)
Go out and buy yourself a decent professional quality interface and do the job right. All the problems you are having would be solved with a professional quality USB interface that runs native ASIO drivers.
Always work with the right tools.... it's so much better. While, as I said, music is a hobby, I am serious about the music I write and record. As a result, I researched the software and the hardware I would need to "do it right" and went out and that's what I bought to get started.
Just a suggestion: Go buy a nice interface tomorrow and be done with the problems associated with trying to run a factory card on MME.