rodreb
Please, correct me if any of this is wrong but, here are my thoughts so far....
Since Studio One works fine (very responsive, very fast) then how can it be my firewire card or my hard drives or any of the hardware??
I agree. You've got another DAW working fine with the same hardware, so the talk about "you need more RAM," "you need an SSD" is kinda....well, I'll leave it at that. If Cakewalk "needed" your computer to have an SSD or more than 16G of RAM to run smoothly I wouldn't even be here because I would consider such a program to be poop.
One of my computers is an aging Dell notebook with an i5, 5200RPM drive, and 4G of RAM, and Cakewalk runs just fine on it. My main system has 8G of RAM and at the moment my projects are on a 5200RPM drive, and I don't get the blue frisbee when I hit the start button. Your new system is a friggin' dreadnaught compared to mine.
You say that the problem started happening at a certain time on your old system, so it seems very likely that something changed in your configuration at that point.
Call it a hunch, but there's a page in
Preferences called "
Sync and Caching." I don't understand 90% of what it says on that page, but the words "
pressing play in Cakewalk will" kinda jump out at me. Why don't you take a look at that and see if you or someone else poked around in there and checked the wrong box(es)?