I think the solution for you is clear. It's just a case of familiarity, the familiarity you have with SONAR/Cakewalk because you have used it for so long, and because of that familiarity you can do things quicker and easier, you've done the learning already, you know the workarounds to get around all the quirks and bugs within SONAR/Cakewalk. Give yourself the time get as comfortable with another product as you are with SONAR/Cakewalk, at least comfortable enough to do what you need without having to think about it, obviously you can't give it the same amount of time it has taken you to get as familiar and fluent with SONAR/Cakewalk as you have become, but enough time to get where you need to be, it really doesn't take that long if you apply yourself and let go of your bias's, and allow yourself to get past the frustrations of learning something new, forget your perceived loyalty to a product/company etc.
I put down a lot of the issues you see talked about to what I like to call "
Cake Flake", you see it in many threads, for eg the recent "Can't writ, disk may be full" thread, this has been going on for years and years, it doesn't affect everyone, but enough to be a well known issue here, then you have things like project/file corruption, has been ongoing for many years, again doesn't affect everyone, you could go on and on, there are many many examples of "
Cake Flake" and you don't see the issues with other products, draw your own conclusions. If it wasn't for being a Cakewalk?SONAR user since Pro Audio 9 up until about 3 years ago, I would never have known what an audio engine drop out was, has never happened to me with
ANY other product, only Cakewalk/SONAR. You'll see many threads that repeat the same thing as you have said, that everything works fine with other DAW's but not Cakewalk/SONAR, again, draw your own conclusions.
I believe if you give another DAW an honest chance, forgetting your bias's, you love of Cakewalk etc etc, your perceived loyalty to a product/company, life will become much easier, it did for me 3 years ago, I knew the workarounds and everything to avoid many of the issues, but when I gave myself the chance to experience other products, and allowed myself to get past the problem of being familiar with Cakewalk/SONAR, the frustrations of learning something new, I saw for myself what it was that I had been putting up with for years, and it just isn't necessary. Maybe for you it could end up that it is worth it to stay with Cakewalk, and that's fine, at least you'll know if you give something else a good honest chance.
Every program has quirks and bugs, but in my experience, Cakewalk?SONAR has more than it's fair share, best of luck with your problems, hope you get it sorted out which ever way.
When considering given solutions, remember, it works fine with other products, it does not with Cakewalk/SONAR