Sorry for the delays in replies. This time of night I'm a bit more busy. 13hrs into this issue.
Good news for anyone else. A solution, well kind of....
1) clean install of drivers+software file
2) plug in unit
3) set the tascam settings to DAW
4) set hdmi or some other device as default. (NEEDED).
5) set a webcam or headset as default input device. (NEEDED)
6) load up and it works.
so I can use it if I go back to webcam mic... kind of makes it pointless as the entire purpose is so I can have a higher quality mic for chat and youtube.
An additional note, skipping any one of these steps means restarting from step 1 all over again. I tried after I got it working with defaults still set to tascam and had to go thru the whole process again.
also..
sonar le can be installed 32bit or 64bit.