Thanks. I gave it another go and this time (why not before?) unstalling the AVB PRO driver and installing the USB AVB worked. So the device now seems to get recognized easier (well, it showed everytime I tested turning AVB or DAW off and on).
However, I cannot access the routing matrix as the other MOTU apps still dont find the device (???); turning firewall off makes no difference. I could possibly access it from another PC connected via LAN, but then I can't use the AVB port to hook up a 2nd device ...
Also, there is quite a penalty on the achievable lowest latency I can get as I need to use double size buffer which boost it from 4 ms RTL to >9 ms ...
So for now, the PRO driver with its occasional quirks of not showing still wins