The plugins issue could be overcome if you were happy to get the fnal stereo mix plus a Sonar project with just bus stems.
It would mean an extra step for whoever is mixing of exporting the bus stems individually, creating a new project, Importing the bus stems and just re-mixing levels without plugs.
For best results you would still need to send the individual tracks but get back only pre-rendered busses where the effects are burnt in (albeit some effects may be on separate busses)