I have no issues with SuperTap or any other Waves Stereo plug-in used in the FX bin on a mono track in SONAR with stereo interleave enabled. They work exactly as intended. I'm currently up to date with the latest releases of SONAR and Waves but have been using these plug-ins for a year or two with no issues.
I just tested by creating a new project, enabling an input with a guitar plugged in, adding SuperTap 6 Stereo and panning two delays hard left and right. All worked fine with no tricks. Do you have any other plug-ins on the track that could be complicating things? Have you tried testing with a fresh empty project?
This won't work in the Clip FX bin but I don't think any stereo effects work on mono tracks in the Clip FX bin because these are processed prior to interleave according to the signal flow documentation.
Again, do not bother with the Mono-To-Stereo plug-ins as these do not work correctly in SONAR and, as far as I know, never have. I could've sworn that I've seen official confirmation of this at some point (from Waves if I'm remembering correctly) but I can't find it now.
Like I mentioned before, sometimes SONAR and Waves get out of sync when you add a Stereo plug-in and then switch the interleave. That's all I can imagine could be the problem. Toggling the effect off and on again usually solves this though maybe you could try deleting it and re-adding it completely after ensuring stereo interleave is on?
I am using the VST3 versions if that matters.