Hi Chuckebaby,
I've read these posts and I think I have some useful advice.
1. Dynamic range is the big gig in audio for loudness, recording, mixing, mastering and such.
Record at 24 bit (144dB S/N) and every consumer format will allow you to compress to a more useful, but inclusive, dynamic range. This will allow you plenty of headroom and noise level removal.
2. Try to edit all recordings to a -1dBfs level... you can always turn things down. It is best to avoid turning up the levels as your noise will get louder too.
3. Try to mix to a -3dBfs level... transients may compromise your mix levels but you can either manually adjust them, reexamine your source files or use a limiter when going for more loudness.
4. When mastering, it is important to use the standards for presentation, i.e. DVD, CD, theater, surround sound, mp3, internet, ect... There are no true standards to make "all-in-one" masters.
5. Avoid generic mastering sites as they are just using hi-ratio multiband compressors to get the most volume and this will change your mix of dialogue (vocals), sound effects and music.
6. If you master in 24 bit, you will have 144dB of S/N so you can convert to standard 16 bit presentations very easily. I generally master to -1dBfs. I try to keep the most important audio parts between -1dBfs and -12dBfs, depending upon the other material. I generally keep secondary levels between -6dBfs and -18dBfs and third level sounds under -12dBfs and -24dBfs. This generally will give you a 100% (loudest) to 12.5% (softest) volume. This works well for theater film sound... I compress a DVD sound level by 2:1 to go 100% to 25% (for normal... you may be required to reduce the dynamic range to 1/2 of that, depending upon the movie). For music, it really depends upon the artist and style but most people like these above setting (hip-hop artist may like a 100%-50% setting to keep everything sound loud on ear-buds, iTunes, internet, ect.). Any DNR lower than 25% may disappear in a "less-than-perfect" environment and any DNR larger than 50% will change the mix.
I hope you find this useful,
Tom