Finally got to look at some of these boards, had to travel to Melbourne city for medical reasons.
Currently thinking I will get the AKAI mpk261, and later get a workstation synth for the lounge room, to swap in if I need 88 keys or to replace the ESR-333 that sits out there already, something like the yamaha mofx8.
I have been advised that the advance is ok with VIP, and if I really wanted that functionality to get a 25 key to use for the VIP function, and use the mpk261 or other keyboard for playing, basically relegating the advance to a vst control panel.
I talked to 2 sales people, and they seemed to steer me away from either the Kontrol, Advance or Nectar, towards either the maudio code 49, novation launchey or the mpk series, effectively downselling me to the cheaper products.