With a little thought you could easily set up your system so that your speakers are fed with a balanced signal whilst still making use of your headphone amp.
This should reduce any noise in the system.
My setup is similar to yours and the routing is as follows.
In SONAR, my master buss feeds hardware outputs 1 & 2. These feed into my mixer and the main outs of the mixer go via balanced cables to my monitors
In SONAR, I set up a buss called Headphones. This buss feeds into hardware outputs 3 & 4. These feed into my headphone amp. You can connect what you want to the headphone amp outputs.
All of my other busses (Drums/Vocals.Guitars/Keys etc) all have a SEND to the headphone buss, so you can tailor what goes to the headphone amp by adjusting the send levels of each buss.