Hey Vladsyn.
The select/delete behavior seems to be consistent for me. Here's how I see it:
1. Whichever Track number glows is always selected. If I hit delete, that is where the deletion will happen. It I click on a clip in a different track, the track selection moves automatically.
2. If I change tracks by clicking anywhere in the Track name pane other than its track number, or use the up/down arrows or a control surface to make another track active (I may wish to make another midi track active to play a synth for example), I am only changing the active track. The track selection does not move. (This would seem to me to be the only way you could think sonar was deleting the wrong track, but it seems to me this is more user error than unintended behaviour. Maybe I am just used to its quirky ways:

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Try as I may I cannot make Sonar misquote the number of tracks it is going to delete, or delete anywhere but on the active track/s, and that is always indicated by the glowing track selection number/s.
In short, to select a track click on it's track number (or control click for multipes). Any deletion ALWAYS happens on the selected track/s and that is ALWAYS indicated by the glowing track number.