You must have each project in an own folder.
I just tried to save a mixscene in a project to file (in my case K19443-Mix(2).cwm). Then I openend an other project and dragged my mixscene file from the windows explorer (K19443-Mix(2).cwm) into the trackview from an other project. The fader moved all immediately to the values of the first project.
Maybe this is the reason for you. Generate your mixscene to a file and drag and drop it (from windows explorer) into the trackview to your other projects.
Possibly this only works, when you have each project in an own folder. Because Sonar must create its own local mixscene file. Otherwise files will be mixed and confused.