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Dear forum friends
 
I am a little confused and maybe you can help me here, I am newby so maybe my question is simple
I bought the eastwest QL and since I was looking for a good software afterwards I took sonar professional
 
Unfortunately I have some problems to setup them
Setup from asio4all is done in ewql and sonar, here the sync was doing well
I get a feedback from windows when this is done
 
Now to the problem 
Only random i get the possibility to choose the correct ingoing signal
I open a new empty project
insert a new instrument
afterwards I choose play as instrument
and now i can only choose none or the virtual controller as ingoing signal in the tab instruments
 
In the audio tab I have only the choise to use none or asio4all v2 with my headset
 
Further in my ingoing channel these options are only available in the track.
 
The result is, that the track is not recorded even when i hear the signal but the two lines are not visble and the metronon is not to hear as wll
I have tried this in different ways and got it once by accident but not again later
 
Can anyone let me know how to set up in sonar a system like eaql and to what to look for
I have searched in youtube and in the help center but I could not find any solution
 
Thank you very much for your help
 
From Ireland with greetz
Joern