mike_mccue
I bumped into a old friend last night at home depot... I hadn't seen him in many years. Since he's grown up he's started a family and is about to have his third child.
I've been following his music and know that his band is about to release a CD next month.
I got a big hug and he said... "man I'd really like to show you what I am up to these days... you taught me so much when I was getting started."
I have lots of those experiences and often times that experience also includes the type of realizations Jimmy just describes. This encounter from last night included the full spectrum of memories. :-)
I think it's the nature of getting older... :-)
I continue to help people... but I have learned to expect my best *students* to outgrow me and leave for their *walk about* before they fully understand the gifts that were shared.
All in all, I find it rewarding.
best regards,
mike
Mike, those are some very powerful words.
Very well said. In saying the things that I'm going
to say I hope that although it isn't about templates
I hope the similarity is there because it's still
about learning. I think of myself as both a teacher
and a student. I once had a jazz guitar teacher
in Nashville.
went to Florida and studied under a guy
in Jacksonville (Robert Conti), for about
6 months, came back to near Nashiville
and looked my previous teacher (Norm Cole)
He said "play something" I did and then I said
I want to start lessons again with you.
He said I can't teach you anymore. He said
we can get together and jam. So we did that.
I went to a couple of other jazz teachers
at that time and they also said they couldn't
teach me. I still had so much to learn as I
always will, it's just that they could only
offer so much. I've taught people in the
martial arts that now I can't hold a candle
to in competition.
You are so right about having to "leave the
nest". I had wondered why that I think so
much of my teachers now and you said it well.
We do start to see the full spectrum of the
gifts after leaving the nest. Be it in music
or otherwise there are also some things
that we just simply have to do ourselves.
I think a good teacher is a guide. As the
student grows we see how to nurture
they're development. In many ways the
student is actually teaching themselves.
I get the impression the OP would be
a very good student.
How does one answer the questions
the Op ponders? I would say application.
Write a song. put it together, do a mix
let someone hear it and see what they
think (someone in the know).
I stayed in the closet too long. I felt
like I was protecting my works. Once
I put my stuff out there to hear then
I started learning how to up the
standards. Learning how to mix doesn't
seem so frightening but having the world
hear your latest effort could be.
As a picture is worth a thousand words
so is an example of our works. I see
many questions asked hear on the tech
forum but it looks as though these
members don't participate in the songs
forum (examples of they're works).
And (most) song forum members don't
come here for tech stuff. I understand
that some don't need or want to. Many
times it just isn't "the right time" to
think tech as well as "not the right time"
to think songwriter.
There seems to be a direct correlation
with a persons "song quality" and they're
"mix skills". (when one both writes and
mixes). Usually a great song will have a
great mix, a so so song will have a so so
mix (on average) (on original songs).
Getting feed back on examples of ones
works would be good, be it the mix
quality or the song quality or both.