Stay away from multiband processing if you are not familiar with it, it's very powerful tool but also very easy to get it wrong. When you feel you feel comfortable using regular compression and different eq teqhniues it can be fun to start experemeting with it though as it offer some possibilities other methods don't
When you compare your tracks with industry tracks it can be a good idea to lower the industry track by about 6 dB or something so you listen at equal level. First compare the sound and only then the loudness as the loudness otherwise will obscure the perception of the sound.
For hiphop to get that big kick it's pretty common to boost a few dB around 60 hz wich is a bit lower than other genres. You can also try layering your snare with a short snap of white noise to get it to cut. The biggest thing though might be sound selection, try to find some drum samples you think sound really knockin even before you start to mix them (and if needed layer) and always A/B pre and after you've made changes as it can be easy to accidently compress a drum to sound softer rather than harder. Sometimes no compression is the best compression. Tube and tape saturation usually goes really well with kick and snare as well. Also don't forget to use high pass filters as unneccesary low freqz wont make your instruments (or master for that sake) phatter, just muddier. Also make sure your kick and bass don't cancel each other out or drown one another, where you boost one it can often work to cut the other a little.
When mastering you can look at a reference track in a spectrum analyzer and at the same time look at your track in another spectrum analyzer. Compare the graphs and it'll give you a few pointers to where the songs differ in the frequency spectrum, if you find that the industry track have a bigger bump around 100 hz try boosting your tune there with an EQ a little or if your track has a much bigger bump around 5 khz it might be to harsh and you can try cutting a little. Put your EQ before the analyzer in the chain so you can see the difference your eq tweaks will do and you might get to know your eq of choise better. After a while you'll learn to hear these differences between the tracks or what eq tweaks you might try without having to look at the analyzer.
To get a little more glue as well as some more punch try using the Pro-Chanel 4k on the masterbus with an ratio of maybe 2 or 4, a slow attack and a fast (or auto) release and lower the treshold until you get just a few (no more than four, probably even less) gain reduction. It's a subtle effect but it can make a track sound much more together as well as give it some more bounce.