John didn't "get it". Hiding the love making makes it more erotic, makes it more appealing. Violence in the open is just the way it is... who knows when someone is going to pi55 you off, insult your wife, cuss a blue streak in front of your grand daughter... sometimes violence just pops up. I think is is easier to control sex then violence, at least until you get in the backseat or in the room, lol.
Sometimes, you just have to get real.
Like this fred.. the "why brother fred".
J