Here's an idea.., a distinct forum that allows vendors such as yourself to generate business opportunities could be created, where interested members know in advance that these services are not free (as it should be).
If a forum member contacts me, it's their choice to do so...
If a forum member posts something positive, it's their choice to do so...
If a forum member doesn't like me... what I say... etc, they can choose to use the "block" feature... or simply ignore me. It's all too simple.
If your goal was truly altruistic, why aren't you concerned with the bottom line?
Peer-to-peer didn't yield the answer Millzy needed. That's why he chose to contact me.
Millzy got the help he wanted... and he's happy with the result.
There's nothing more to it... so keep grinding that ax