batsbrew
i'm finding that the longer i mix, the more i get away from stereo effects,
and use mono reverbs and delays, and pan them with the panning of the individual track.
Same here.
A little while back, I've even started building my balance in mono. In fact, I often forget that I hit the mono switch and keep working in mono until something brings it back to my attention, like a particular pan. Overall, I spend a lot of time working in mono.
Usually, if it works, it's only going to be better in stereo.
As for the rest, I tend to use the stereo tool in my DAW to constrain the stereo image of certain instruments (like overheads) to a certain width. I've been re-centering things quite a bit lately.
If I pan something all the way left or right, it's for effect or because I want it to really stand out. It's what seems to help with my mixes, though I can appreciate mixes done w/ a different approach.