Bub

Jonbouy

The amount of times my Mrs has threatend to 'kill me' still haven't prompted me to get her arrested for attempted murder, normally there's just a humourous chase around the room where she gets the better of me as a result usually.  Trouble is if it got written down it could be taken out of context by someone wanting to make some mileage out of it.

I'm not going to dig up old wounds here. I am 100% cool with Danny, and I hope he is with me ...

... but, Jonbouy, you are 100% wrong on this. He means what he says. He may (or may not) regret some of the things he says at a later time, but he means every word of it.

And I'm pretty sure he's going to come back and verify this for me. If I'm wrong, then I do truly apologize and I'll remove my post.

Every time my x-wife said she was going to kill me, I ducked, and left the house, because she meant it. The final 'blow' so to speak was when she came after me with a butchers knife. That was the night I packed my crap up and left.

Back to my music.

Toodles.

Verified with no regrets. I always mean what I say. If I'm pushed to that point, yep, it is what it is. However, in this particular example Bub, it was sarcastic humor. In reality, there is no such thing an as ocean of stfu...and it's not possible for anyone to ingest one really. :) I would think this is quite obvious and there wouldn't be a need for justification. But since there appears the need...
 
In my act of sarcastic humor, I felt it only fair that if it WERE possible to drink an entire ocean, (now think about that, we're talking an OCEAN here) there may be some dental work needed....I figured the least I could do for a person capable of swallowing an entire ocean, was give them a few bucks for any dental work. Especially if they were kind enough to let me partake in this mighty, impossible ingestion. :)
 
I didn't make a mention of punching, fighting, knocking out teeth or meeting anyone like you may have been silently implying in your "old wounds" comment. Though I do feel we"re 100% cool, you seem to make a mention of this in not so many words from time to time. If we really are cool, wouldn't it be a good idea to let that remain in the past? Unless of course you feel the need to revisit it? You can either keep reminding me about it, or like I said....we can revisit it if you feel the need and maybe have some closure to it once and for all. But I'm perfectly fine with things as they are between us...I just think it's pointless to keep bringing it up if you really feel "100% cool" with me. I can tell you this if it helps you any, if I was still carrying what happened between us, I'd not reply to your posts about Sonar trying to help you or comment on the music you've posted. Isn't that sort of a dead giveaway that I'm ok with things?
 
I suspect that is really NOT the case on your side though, so I really don't know what it is you're after. Would you like me to stop replying to your posts about Sonar when I've tried to offer a little advice? Never comment on the music you post? Do you feel it best we ignore each other from here on out? Tell me what you'd like to do on this. Whatever it takes to put the thing to rest is what I'd like to do. But bringing it up in little jabs sure isn't making me feel things are cool.
 
Just like Mike feeling the need to quote me without using my name when the comments he mentioned didn't concern him. My comments to that individual weren't directed at Mike, or even you to mention me here, ya know? Sort of unfair don't ya think? You're joking with me about the frequent flyer miles in one post, then sort of getting involved with something here mentioning old wounds that really isn't about you, see my point? I'm trying to tread softly here and reason with you. Your post was borderline acceptable other than the "I'm not going to dig up old wounds" part. I really don't need anyone to speak for me on whether or not I'm serious about something, and I don't say that to you in a confrontational or stout manner. I just didn't see why you felt the need to get involved, ya know?
 
-Danny

Danny Danzi

Bub

Jonbouy

The amount of times my Mrs has threatend to 'kill me' still haven't prompted me to get her arrested for attempted murder, normally there's just a humourous chase around the room where she gets the better of me as a result usually.  Trouble is if it got written down it could be taken out of context by someone wanting to make some mileage out of it.

I'm not going to dig up old wounds here. I am 100% cool with Danny, and I hope he is with me ...

... but, Jonbouy, you are 100% wrong on this. He means what he says. He may (or may not) regret some of the things he says at a later time, but he means every word of it.

And I'm pretty sure he's going to come back and verify this for me. If I'm wrong, then I do truly apologize and I'll remove my post.

Every time my x-wife said she was going to kill me, I ducked, and left the house, because she meant it. The final 'blow' so to speak was when she came after me with a butchers knife. That was the night I packed my crap up and left.

Back to my music.

Toodles.

Verified with no regrets. I always mean what I say. If I'm pushed to that point, yep, it is what it is.

That's all I was trying to point out.

Nothing more, nothing less.

You do have a tendency to go 'there' when pushed. Everyone reacts in different ways to different situations. Personally, I don't go 'there', but I was just trying to point out that Jonbouy is wrong in his assertion that those are not really your intentions in the right situation.

No, someone swallowing an ocean of stfu is obviously not something realistic, but the dental repair thing, it's going 'there'. Now, I didn't read the thread, I'm only reading between lines here ... and really shouldn't have commented, and I apologize. I stepped in the middle of a conversation I wasn't privy to when I didn't know what I was talking about.

I would think the 'frequent flyer' miles comment would have solidified the fact that I'm over anything that might have happened.

I like you, always have, and will continue. Even if something should happen again where we would go 'there', I understand now that's just how you are and I accept it.

I'm trying to pinpoint why Jonbouy's reply prompted me to respond, and after thinking about it, I guess the real reason is how he seemed to downplay it.

Again, I should have kept my mouth shut and I apologize.

Danny Danzi


It's just that no one but me, Jonbuoy and Steve have the guts to tell you that. 
  
 
-Danny

Danny...?... If you could see my face it would sure tell you a story...and unfortunately it's
a story I had to write on too many faces. Life can be like that whether we like or not. It wasn't
my choice to be raised on the streets.
I know you're upset but don't be misled by it.
 
 
Sorry...I should have offered; many times it's not a question of "guts"- it's simply having the oppertunity to choose our battles....
  
 

Thanks for the reply Bub...and if God forbid we ever have to "go there" again, let's talk about it. I like you too man and honestly don't want any problems with anyone if you can believe that. :)

In case you were wondering, the dude I made the comment about was pretty much following me around for a few posts making comments about something I hold pretty close to my heart and just had to keep going out of his way to call it "junk" while saying other little things here and there. After a while man, it gets old...especially when I was trying to help someone out and they had asked "what's in your rig". Posts in different places started to show up about my "junk" including a response to your Amazon comment..which he again aimed at me.

Stuff like that, just doesn't fly with me. I've never had anything to do with the guy to where he'd take shots at me...so I took a few back. It's like if you came up to me in person and said "dude, your rig is junk" I'm going to say "I respect that...sorry you feel that way." You keep on saying it to me or yelling it in public in front of my friends when I already know how you feel, I'm gonna say "look bud, how about drinkin' an ocean because you're getting on my nerves now." Thus my comment to the dude. Hope that explains it.

I just like to be left alone man. Debating or talking like civil human beings about something is perfectly ok. I love when someone teaches me something or offers advice. I don't believe my techniques or opinions are worthy of being rammed down anyone's throats other than those that bash on something that have no business bashing or because they have never physically tried something, ya know? I just offer people to try stuff. It's a little hard to debate a dude like Pete who comes on and slings mud at everyone and doesn't even have a nice delivery to where you can even talk to the guy. So I respond like he does...and if he wants to push it further...well, you know how I am there. There's just no reason for anyone to act on here unlike they would to a man in person and that's just something I believe in. That's really it in a nutshell. Again, thanks for the reply...no harm no foul. :)

-Danny

spacey

Danny Danzi


It's just that no one but me, Jonbuoy and Steve have the guts to tell you that. 
  
 
-Danny

Danny...?... If you could see my face it would sure tell you a story...and unfortunately it's
a story I had to write on too many faces. Life can be like that whether we like or not. It wasn't
my choice to be raised on the streets.
I know you're upset but don't be misled by it.
 
 
Sorry...I should have offered; many times it's not a question of "guts"- it's simply having the oppertunity to choose our battles....
  
 

Totally understand you there brother. Wasn't my choice either, so I can relate. If I was literally a Richard Cranium to everyone and in need of an attitude adjustment like a few we know of on here, I can totally understand how someone wouldn't like me or think I'm a crazy lunatic. But the truth of it is as you and others know, I'm not like that at all. I just don't like bad men behind the screen syndrome and don't think anyone should have to see it or put up with it on ANY forum.
 
The other pat of it resides in how serious I take the forum. I work all the time...it's my only social life believe it or not...so for someone like me, it's not just text on a screen. I wish it were...I'd have an easier time with things. But unfortunately, I am the way I am brother. I love people like there's no tomorrow and there isn't much I wouldn't do for someone in need. That said, when I get upset...well, I'm equally as forceful in how I put myself out there. Sad I know...but, that's just me and all I know as well as what I feel comfortable with.

-Danny

I've had mine adjusted a few times here. I came here to learn. Still here
and I know they are still willing to share with me. Hope all this goes as well.

Hahaha...taken my lumps too. Bullied till 8 years old wasn't fun....no easier as you get older. The greatest thing was fighting back...sad but true, but sometimes society doesn't give you a choice. :) All is well man....no worries.

Incidentally, any new Sonar 32 developments on your end? I was serious about the phone call if you need me. I don't care how long it takes or what we try. If I can help in any way, let me know, ok?

-Danny

I'm still messing with 64 Danny.

Since the project was done on a template which included all the Spectrasonics stuff
set-up along with other things I wanted to do another project with a "clean" slate.

I thought that I might try and pin-point what may have caused the issues and buy some time...8.5.3 is still on a 64 bit too.
I did find a weird issue with "Atmoshere" that was still kept (intentionally by the company)
that is part of Omnisphere and got that corrected.
It may be vst issues for some of the problems I had....trying to sort that out right now.

I did open up 8.5.3 -64 bit and geeze.....X2 has ruined me. I really like it.
Before I go to 32 I have to do what I can. Sure not one to complain and bother others without trying to do what I can.
Between the honey do, guitar /pickup builds , chores....lol you know...stuff just takes time.

I know you're there and that is a fantastic comfort. Thank you my friend.

Michael

I'm trying to pinpoint why Jonbouy's reply prompted me to respond, and after thinking about it, I guess the real reason is how he seemed to downplay it.

 
No not trying to downplay it at all, I suggested the language got post edited.
 
It does grate with me though when someone prepared to speak their mind openly and plainly gets a pot shot taken at them by somebody willing to do more harm behind a veil of respectability and elevating themselves above the truly nasty piece of work they in fact are.
 
I call it double speak.
 
Truth is I haven't been involved in violence for a good number of years, regardless of that there are plenty that I've thought worthy of a good smack in the mouth on occasion, most human beings I know are prey to having similar feelings from time to time.
 
The only difference is that I wouldn't post those thoughts aimed directly at anyone on a forum, not because I don't have those thought but because someone is likely to try and get some mileage out of them as we've just seen happen here, and if it's written down it's likely to back-fire in my direction and not in the direction of the scoundrel making the mileage.
 
I'm not a violent person but some go out of their way to work your last nerve in order to provoke a negative response for no better reason than being abusive, who then is the villain?
 
Threats of violence on a forum are a bad idea, not only from the standard viewpoint of them being unacceptable, but because they also make you a target.
 
I ain't playing that down, although I did notice that Danny's comment followed the previous notion of drinking an ocean of please be quiet which obviously qualified it to a large extent as not being a serious threat to anybodies well-being.
 
There's only one person that had mentioned it afterward until he successfully manged to draw particular attention to it which was clearly his desire.  I'm not going to share my thoughts on that **** any further...

Dude ... oh my God (x3 real fast) ... I just had left-over ribs for lunch.

They are soooo much better the day after. Slow cooked some in a crock-pot yesterday until the meat fell off the bone. Had some for dinner, and I had leftovers for lunch today.

The wife went grocery shopping the morning of The Super-bore. She found these pre-cooked, pre-packaged racks of ribs for less than a buck a pound on clearance. Came home with a couple of shopping bags full of them.

Put most in the freezer, but we had some on Super-bore Sunday, and I've been having some for lunch.

The In-Law's were supposed to come down the following weekend, that's why she got so many, but they backed out.

He wanted to haul his Harley down here to go riding because the weather is so much milder down here. Ended up raining, so they backed out. Now I got all these ribs.