sharke
It's not the word "sex" that some women find offensive, it's the word "fairer." For whatever reason, they find it patronizing. Although ours isn't to question, right? It's to simply not use the word without any consideration of whether or not it's reasonable to be offended by it. Which is apparently the lesson I'm being schooled on here.
Here in the south many women enjoy being "fairer".
ergo the fairer "members" of society do actually exist... and not to surprise you or anything... but some of the fairer "members" are also... gasp; guys.
So I have accepted your insights and noted the worthiness of your suggestion but I'm not interested in your brow beating.
You came out the gate this morning posting a thread with a salacious title and you've spent the day making a scene of it.
I'm in awe. You win.