daryl1968, I have visited the "stupid" thread from time to time, but have only rarely commented in it, as I'd rather not say anything in that thread unless I can add something humorous (which has happened on occasion).
Also, if a thread is going in a direction at any given time that I am not personally comfortable with, I will simply not post anything at that point in that thread. I don't care to go along with some stuff, nor (since I am not an arbitrator <smile>) do I care to make a stink about it.
I responded to Bub in this thread, simply because I do believe that some have indeed left because of the issues raised.
As for the "stupid" thread itself, I think that type of thread has been an ideal solution to some of the issues that were raised: it keeps the option for the crazy banter, while at the same time removes the clutter some objected to in the CH.
On another level, it is possible that some of what is being discussed in this thread are simply differing views on the relationship between "my rights" vs. "concern for others". If one focuses entirely on "my rights" the "other" is completely disregarded. OTOH, if the concern is strictly for the "other" one then risks becoming a doormat. Thus, it becomes more difficult to figure out what is reasonable, all the more so, when what one person thinks is acceptable another person thinks is way out of bounds.