Hi,
Good luck ... and yeah ... more good luck.
In my theater days at UCSB, at the end of the school year, in the Advanced Acting Course (year round with complete history of theater!), all actors are "invited" to do a "National" somewhere in LA ... and of course, everyone makes you feel like they are a star and everyone is gonna get a scene in front of the pro's!
Well, I was almost 10 years older than these folks in the class and I said something like ... I wouldn't do it. Which of course, was not a popular thing to do or say ... but you can't take away someone's chance ... and you help them the best you can ... and I did.
Two of the folks came back so downtrodden and frustrated. It was a cattle call, that had over 2,000 people, and they watched about 5 scenes, before theirs and one "judge" was asleep, the other was reading his Penthouse magazine - he never looked up and was paging through something -- thus the joke, and the other ... looking at the ceiling and totally bored! And these were ... "professionals".
In the end, no one, and our group was about 50 folks including graduate students, ever got a second call ... but they took each person's money ... $400 ... for the chance.
It was the biggest scam I ever saw! And those folks should be nailed to the wall!
All in all, and I knew this from my dad's "fame" in the literary world, you can not live strictly hoping that you get a chance ... there are many in there on the same boat, and the difference is, often, a stroke of luck, or a very bad stroke of a trade ... that gets many people taken advantage of.
All in all, you have to get better on your own, with your own band, and develop that enough to take it to the next level. Only then, will you be noticed and maybe even appreciated for the work you do.
As far as acting, it is best that you find all the local kids going nuts with a camera in their hand and help them get their project done ... it eventually gets seeen somewhere ... but waiting for those "bastards" to pick a child out of nowhere ... is insane ... they want their child for their own money ... and I do not feel comfortable selling my daughter to prostitution, not to mention the amount of insane emotional blitz that eventually gets the kid off the music altogether and decide that going their own way and having a child is more satisfying in life ... than a high doing something that they are very good at ... but will not develop.
And there are many of us here ... that went through all that!
I'd put up the money and put together an album for my daughter and her friends/band, than I would taking her to meet those folks ... they are some of the ugliest scum you ever met ... and the emotional bs that the kids go through in the stage is often too harsh to overcome and learn from. Those people are not professionals ... they are career closers and killers!
Sorry about the soap box ... but I can tell you how many folks from our acting class actually did some work in the business. Only one! There is one other that also did -- and still does -- a lot of live theater in the LA area, and he had spent some time with the Utah Shakespearean Festival to his credit ... but never got another call anywhere else. That's 2 out of 20. All the ladies in the class got hurt the most. Not one of them was anywhere near theater or film a couple of years later.
It's a rough business ... but you also have to understand the cattle call mentality ... and I would not put my child through that ... EVER!