Well, I guess everyone's busy.... but, fwiw...
I've decided to go with the 4930 with an Asus P9X79 mb, using a corsair Hydro Series H80i cpu water cooler, figuring that if I decide to overclock at some point the cooler running 4930 paired with the H801i will be a bit more stable...
Besides, Newegg has an additional $40 off coupon going for the 4930 right now which almost brings it down to the price of a 3930...
this should keep me fat and happy for quite awhile or at least until Intel decides to release their anticipated 6/8 core haswell e series down the road at a reasonable price point.
By far, the Xmas present I will use and love every day come the new year! Broke but doin' what I am here to do!