Here is something I ran across recently -
Mathaudio Room EQ VST. It appears to work similar to ARC and they do make the similar claims, but they seem slightly less "obtuse" about it. To the OP's top post, it's certainly cheaper to buy (no mic included in price), and you can download and try it for free! Not shilling here, it's just been on my short-list of "wiry and speaker-y" things to do in the studio. I already have an ECM-8000 (I know - a dubious honor) so I suppose I'm partway there.