The only people I talk to besides my wife are the people on this forum.

I have no life, no friends, no family, other than what goes on here and with her when I see her nights and weekends, I see nothing and nobody.

I'm so upset by what I've seen here lately, and not just in this thread.

Again, I apologize if I've said anything to anyone that may have triggered something ... I have a habit of doing that and not realizing it, which is why it's easier just to stay the hell away from people and just be alone.

I just wish it was the way it was a little while ago before that a$$hole upstairs ruined it.

Report me, ban me if you want, he's an a$$hole ... and I know he's reading this, and I know he's getting off on it in his sick little way.

Hey Bub - you haven't said anything upsetting as far as I know. You're a good bloke.

By the a$$hole upstairs, you don't mean the squirrel in my attic do you? Keeps me awake all bloody night.

daryl1968


Hey Bub - you haven't said anything upsetting as far as I know. You're a good bloke.

Amen to that Daryl.
 
Bub, you're one of the best for sure.
 
 

Oh geez, another Interweb relationship gone sour.

Hopefully you can get this sorted out amiably.

jamesg1213


I'm guessing it's not really making you feel any better, and making everyone else a bit uncomfortable. Could be wrong though.

It's done mate.  Out there. I did get it off my chest and yes it has helped. 
  
I don't want to make anyone on this board feel uncomfortable, if that has happened to any bystanders I truly apologise.  However this thread will be tomorrows chip paper, if allowed let it die.
 
Hopefully it'll serve either as a warning or an education to someone at some point. 
I've spoken the truth and I don't have anything further to add.
 
Somebody I considered a good friend is perfectly happy to leave me out to hang, I needed to put it out there.
Simples.
 
Job done.

Welp... it might be the stress, the exhaustion, the pain, the painkillers or me just being a gol' danged hippie but I think pretty much all of you are a bunch of fine folks. This too shall pass.

Also remember kids... internet drama is the lamest form of drama.

;-)

You can't really start a thread to bring to everyone's attention a grievance you have, and then expect everyone to 'let it die' once you've had your say. It's a public forum, and you chose you make your grievance public. Like it or not, you've invited comment.

. If you choose to collaborate with someone on a project of theirs, and you accept that they are the producer, then you probably have to expect that they're going to make decisions about your contribution which may vary from your own choices, if you were producing. Which you're not.

Been there.

jamesg1213


You can't really start a thread to bring to everyone's attention a grievance you have, and then expect everyone to 'let it die' once you've had your say. It's a public forum, and you chose you make your grievance public. Like it or not, you've invited comment.

. If you choose to collaborate with someone on a project of theirs, and you accept that they are the producer, then you probably have to expect that they're going to make decisions about your contribution which may vary from your own choices, if you were producing. Which you're not.

Been there.

I raised it.  What any one else wants to make of it or do with it is out of my control.  I'm saying anyone is welcome to let it die.  I promise not to add to it but since you raised a point directly to me I'm happy to answer it.
 
Like I said I didn't care what was done to my contrib after I'd done it.  The timeline is in the questionairre.  I said I didn't want my name put to it if it was to be posted like it was, that's what caused the insane reaction.
 
I've collab'd with you before and even if you haven't used my contrib you've been courteous and respectful about it and there's been no bad feeling left behind and I've never got out of my pram over anything I've done with anyone once I've done it.
 
I hear what you are saying sadly it doesn't apply here.  I wish it did.

Harsh... but fair. 


Yep... working on a collaborated project can be fun or total frustration.  

Finding a musician or a writer who you can really collaborate with and work with is a joyous experience. I have been blessed by both. 

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