Bub
Women don't help. They only make it worse because they are 10 times more emotional than we are, and as musicians/artists, we're already 1/2 ~ 3/4 chick when it comes to emotions.
I'm still looking for that elusive woman (mythical some might say) who doesn't call you and say "can I come over?" when you're just sitting down at your DAW for a wonderful night of MIDI, and then get paranoid when you say you're busy. I thought I'd found her 2 years ago but she dumped me for wishing her a happy Valentine's Day (by text).