A very good article to read on Loudness was in Sound on Sound Feb this year. Soon it will be free to download so just keep an eye on it.
http://www.soundonsound.c...icles/loudness-war.htm Once this is free to download that article refers to some very cool links which explain the whole Loudness standard. They are also well worth reading too.
VU readings and Loudness readings are close but not exactly the same. But working with K system and VU metering will put you right in the ball park.
Dynamic Range metering and the Loudness range are also not quite the same thing. I suggest you get into a Dynamic Range Meter such as the TT meter.
These days I work with all three now. VU metering during the production. Dynamic Range metering and overall Loudness metering. I think you need to work with all of them at the same time especially in mastering. I like to insert the DR meter before and mastering in order to keep a close eye on the DR of the mastered sound. The DR meter will also tell you if you are squashing your mixes too much. If the reading is a little low you can go back to your mix and ease off some of the compressors that are in key positions in your mix.
There is a sweet spot in mastering where you
can get decent loudness but at the same time manage a healthy DR reading of say 9 or 10. But once you tip over that though the loudness goes up OK but then the DR reading starts to fall to 8 and below and that is just bad.
In CD mastering these days I am aiming for a VU rms average of around -12/-10 db rms now which also results in a healthy DR reading of about 9 or 10 and the LUFS reading also ends up being in that ball park too. It would be nice to master a CD to -23 LUFS too but clients are still a little reluctant to do it. They still want it reasonably loud.
When I am producing music or soundtracks for TV though I stick to the recommended -23 LUFS standard though. The TV guys love it. They can just drop it in and the levels are all perfect.
The free Orban LUFS meter is also excellent and does a great job and tells you much about the signal you are monitoring.
http://www.orban.com/meter/