I am in therapy and we are in process of coming up with that answer and trying different meds
Perhaps you should be in the process of trying to come up with a new threapy, that could be the answer... and of course... the meds. Meds will fix anything, even the side effects of the other meds.
It really is a "no win/catch 22" situation because if you come up with an answer for Bapu... he/she/it will just switch to being The Bapu. Then you are back to 0.
BTW... how is the tent coming along?
J