One of my friend tours quite a bit in Canada and frequently takes one of his guitars as his hand luggage (soft case) and assured me he never had any issues bringing it onboard w/ him.
I don't know how things are in the US and it depends on the company I guess.
As I mentioned in that other thread, on our flight from NY to Vegas, Virgin actually offered me to check in my 2 guitars (hard cases) so that they wouldn't end up in the cargo. They said that it's what they usually do for musical instruments. The good thing is that they also bring them back to you right after you land, instead of just sending them on the rails at baggage claim w/ the rest of the stuff that's in the cargo.
They even offered to re-imburse us because we had paid for them as regular luggages.
Make sure you loosen the strings. Hope for the best - because pressure isn't a good thing for yor instrument. That one friend I mentioned above had the great displeasure to find the neck of his precious Godin had not stood the pressure on a trip to the UK recently. But that's the only such negative experience he's had.