rsp@odyssey.net
<snip> At one point the host turned to the beleaguered husband and said " Bob..you gotta decide if you wanna be happy, or you wanna be right".
It was like a moment of clarity for my friend, who sat there slack jawed staring at the tv. He decided then and there that he wouldn't argue with his wife no matter what.
Wow! I can't believe you posted this.
When my ex and were going through counseling (and finally divorce) in 1986, I glanced up at a small sign in the waiting room and saw that very same sentence. It forever changed my attitude in dealing with not only women but all relationships in my life.
Life is just to short...I decided to be happy.