Hmm...
maybe I do have some wisdom to impart to the younger generation of musicoligists...
When you get so frustratrated you want to smash your instruments it is time to remove yourself from the room where said instruments exist.
The anger is good. You will think on it, drink on it, [REDACTED] on it, sleep on it... and so forth. Then return the next day (or few days, or week or whatever) and things will go better.
If you freak out and smash all your gear...
ya... then instead of just being able to get back to work after you calm down you gotta go out and replace all your gear.
Don't abuse your gear out of hate.
Unless you do it on stage. Then you are kind of awesome.
Unless of course you destroyed all the gear you have and can't play the next booked gig before being able to replace it... in which case... that's also pretty dumb.