Mike the reason it can be hard and especially hard in this arena is
that to much information and many ways of looking at all of it can just
be a mess to sort out.
Should you feel that theory is something you want to know...I gave you my best advise.
The reason I'm posting is to mention something completely different.
"Mocking". No theory. IMO mocking may have a greater value to a musician than all the
theoritical information.
Not unlike a child learning to talk one can learn how to express themself by mocking.
It stands to reason and very easy to imagine that if one can play what they hear others
play then one may have an easy time playing what they hear "in their head".
I have mentioned this before. I've mentioned that I don't understand why guitarist need
tuners rather than just a starting, reference pitch. It is nothing but a sign that listening...really listening is something that they need to improve. I work on it myself.
I realize that I didn't learn by mocking and so I try to shut-off theory and mock.
It's easy for one to know where they stand. Take a short "lick" from a tune....hear it, then
play it. If you can't....does one think knowing theory will help?
Take note....that is not mocking as much as it is playing by ear. You know....what people say to explain why theory is of no value or that they have no formal musical education.
I don't debate what may be good or not for another.
Mocking is a way of a teacher "feeding" sounds in an organized way so the student
retains and builds.
How can one work with another to determine the value that mocking may have to them?
I have a good understanding of theory and grew up learing songs like most. ( before transciptions and internet were common) So both, playing by ear or reading and determining theoritical explainations is just part of it.
I am the type, as many here are, that could teach a student by mocking. I could determine
how to "feed" and how much to "feed" to expand the students hearing.
So if you know somebody that you think can understand "mocking" or already does...
sure a great way to improve your skills.
I don't think working alone could work LOL....Mocking ones self just doesn't even sound right.
Oh....yes, I did include "mocking" with my students. It added great fun and seem to loosen up and
relax most. Like a game.