It would really help to know exactly what drum sound you are using....
Are they synth drums, loops, sampled, or real? Each one has it's own issues to deal with. The synth and sampled kits to be pretty good right out of the box most times.
I find that my synth and sampled drums do not usually need very much in the way of EQ. I do sometimes drop in a cake default eq with a custom drum preset, usually to accent the highs so the snare cuts through better and maybe a bump on the low end for the kick to have some punch.
I also do not worry over the drums like some folks here do. I don't have the need or the time to tweeze the drums by having each part of the kit in it's own track. I have the whole kit usually in a stereo track.... one track for the drums.
I will work on them long enough to get the sound close to what I want and let it roll from there.
I rarely use reverb on the drums at all.... to much verb will make them mushy and distant. The only verb the drums get treated with comes in the master buss where I have a very very light verb which acts to blend things a bit.
Eq is used ONLY if I think it is needed.
Level in the mix is pretty critical. Too loud, the mix is a mess, too low and they sound distant as well.
I have experimented with multi-band compression on the drums as well as the entire mix.... and this can very often give more low end and punch without killing the mids and highs with the compression.
In short.... getting a good drum sound is like getting a good acoustic guitar sound.... it takes time to get the process and the numbers dialed in. But.... keep focused on it, and post examples in the songs forum and let people here help you..... it's easier to hear something and say, "oh yeah.... try this... it works for me".....