Beepster
Gonna be quite the struggle getting my hands to behave properly though after 20 years of guitar playing. It's VERY difficult for me to play two independent parts with each hand because of how on guitar the right and left hands work in constant unison.
You should take up classical guitar! Nothing teaches you hand and finger independence like a Bach fugue that has 3 or 4 independent parts. The "secret" behind playing independent parts is to sight read them. That's why I recommended taking up classical guitar - all the parts are on one stave. Your eye is tracking left to right and playing the notes as they fall. Sometimes you're playing notes together, other times you're playing notes in succession. The point is, as you're reading and playing, it doesn't
feel like you're playing independent parts. It just feels like you're tracking a succession of notes with your eye and playing them in time. I think a lot of people think that it involves splitting your brain into multiple parts and multitasking....it doesn't.
I actually learned to play independent parts by fingerpicking ragtime guitar. I wrote a walking bassline and a melody, and couldn't wrap my head around playing both at the same time until I realized that you have to think of it as
one part, and which order the notes fall when you consolidate the parts into one.