Okay. Do you understand absolute value in mathematics?
How far am I away from 0?
The absolute value of any number is that number.
-14 is 14 units away from 0
28 is 28 units away from 0
Headroom is just that. However, to use the above numbers relating to volume: 28dB is atrocious distortion. -14dB - how about we creep that up a bit?
This is the reason he said K-20 has the most dynamic range because 20 is further away from 0 than the other two values (in both directions).
K-20: 20dB of headroom
K-14: 14dB of headroom
K-12: 12dB of headroom
What Bit did was calculate the difference between the real scale and the K-Meter's scale to get the headroom capacity.
If your master is @ -6dB, yes, you have 6dB of headroom according to the real scale (the VU meter value). However, if you figure in the different K-Meter scales:
K-20 @ -6dB = 14dB
K-14 @ -6dB = 8dB
K-12 @ -6dB = 6dB
Notice the headroom decrease.
That may be the wrong analogy to use, but I did to illustrate the YT video and Bit's summation. (Do correct me if I am wrong)