craigb
BTW - There's nothing wrong with wanting to discuss your points of view, only your choice of venue to do so.
You are a few levels below things with your thinking. There are many levels to reality, like an onion. Anytime something does not make sense it usually means you are not at the correct level to understand. I would suggest you try to find a community that discusses things like NLP (where you'll actually find that there is NO "good" or "bad" just events and how you respond to these events is what's important) or energy work websites (which will talk a lot about raising your vibration by only surrounding yourself with positive things and people).
The Coffee House is neither of those places. Happy hunting!
Still, nothing could matter to you at all without your emotions. You would have no empathy and you would lose your humanity. Living like that would be no way to live. It would be a no quality standard of living and this is a proven fact as I've explained in the beginning of my theory. The things you've mentioned to me presuppose that your life has positivity. If you are going to have some sort of positive attitude that gives any sort of advice and suggestion to me, then that is already suggesting my life can matter to me in a good way because a positive attitude and outlook on life always presupposes something mattering to you in a good way. You mentioned positive things and people. By that, you would actually be saying good things and people even though you do not realize it. That is why it all has to come down to your life mattering to you in a good way.
Like I said, it can only be our positive emotions that can do this. Lastly, if you or anyone else are a spiritual believer, then you would have to believe in good and bad. God himself and his light or the spiritual forces of light would be sheer goodness itself and there would have to be spiritual dark forces which are sheer badness. Denying the existence of good and bad would be no different than denying all of the goodness I have experienced in my life. You would be denying all the joy, beauty, misery, and suffering I have been through in my life which were, in fact, real things.